Whether it’s the shorter days and early sunsets, the snowstorms and cold fronts, or just the lack of time spent outside, the winter months can be especially tough on our peace of mind. And those of us who suffer from chronic pain may already be a little more vulnerable than others when it comes to mental health, since the condition is considered one of the main causes for increased stress worldwide. There’s no doubt that it can be rough coping with back and neck pain, and for all the healthy lifestyle options you might exercise, and no matter how well you take care of yourself, sometimes a little compassion is what allows us to go the extra mile and overcome the stress and strain!
At its core, compassion is all about creating community, allowing someone who’s going through something tough to feel less alone. So if you know someone in your life who’s going through a tough time with chronic pain, why not join them in some of their steps toward recovery? Even if you don’t suffer from the same ailments, it won’t hurt to take a walk, go through some therapeutic light stretching or exercise routines, or take in a yoga class together! The key is to make it communal and make it fun; this will provide a much-needed boost to both the person suffering from chronic pain and the helper--because there’s nothing more likely to snap you out of the difficulties of the day-to-day than the company of an enthusiastic friend or family member!
If you’re the one dealing with pain, don’t stress--there are loads of options to help bring some compassionate community into your experience. Why not join a class or exercise group? Take the focus off of yourself and your difficulties and begin to share the burden with those around you. There are also plenty of support groups and online forums where you can get important info from real people going through the same things; not just the advice of a medical text or doctor (though those are important too)! Again, the key is to do anything you can to put your experience in a larger context and help yourself to understand that even though things may be tough from time to time, there are others out there experiencing many of the same problems.
Maintaining a sense of connection should be a priority for everyone, not just for those with chronic pain. And it should also be a priority year-round, not just during the holidays! Still, with the new year coming up, what better time to start than now? If there’s someone in your life going through the stresses and strains of chronic pain, let them know you “have their back,” so to speak! And if you are a sufferer yourself, know that you’re not alone!